冷眼看世事:人无好坏,事无对错

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When I was young, I used to use good people and bad people to evaluate a person. As I get older, I know that there are no good people and bad people. I want to use good and bad, justice, evil to define a person, and don't just label others. People's good or bad is the choice in a specific environment.

《越狱5》Omar used Hibba many times, so that Lincoln and Hiba were in danger. Heba, who escaped from the ascension, finally suggested that Lincoln go to Omar. Only he could take them out of Yemen. Omar is sinister and full of lies, but she knows that others are not guilty, not to the point of being mad. Finally, Lincoln finally came to the seaside village that Omar said. The people here were greatly blessed by Omar. Especially the children especially liked Omar and thought he was a good person.

Still that person, get a different bipolar evaluation.

Tell me about my business, when I marry my husband, my husband’s grandmother is still there, my husband’s father is also my father-in-law, giving my grandmother a meal every day, there is a good meal to send a copy, wash the feet, winter Burning the heating stove, ill and serving on the side, can be described as filial piety, but the outsider said that we are not filial to their shackles, so do not come every year. They feel that the filial piety of the father-in-law is only doing what should be done because of the money of the big brother. If we are filial, why do you want to go to the house of the prostitute? Why did filial piety leave the niece at home?

Good people or bad people, really filial or fake filial piety?

What the outsiders think is right, but it is also reasonable, but I also saw that the father-in-law did it. If it was just a job, it would not be so elaborate. What we see is the truth we think.

It is easy to create a difference between people and things, and treat people and things differently. When we listen, or see, or smell, or taste, touch, or think of a thing or point of view, we begin to judge, no matter how the judgment will lead people to a deeper misunderstanding. No difference, accept your point of view, and then further explore and think about your point of view.

xx好比我经常用度娘的知道,当有人提出问题时:

有的人会讥笑,这么白痴的问题还有问

有的人喷怒的责问,这么蠢的问题都问,有无智商?

有的人不负责任,连提问者的要求都没看清楚,回答的驴唇不对马嘴

有的人故作知道,找一堆复制粘贴的东西发上去完事

也会有人循循善诱,顺着提问者的思路,他的逻辑,去理清问题,最后让你看到自己这么想是错了。

无分别的心是不评判,发自内心接纳对方,以对方顺心,能接受的角度去解决问题,思考问题,也就是顺。有智慧的顺着对方的思路,将对方带出来,让他了解到自己的错误。

但人不能老指望着别人帮,你可以选择做提问者,也做回答者。

现实是提问的人多,会回答的人少。这也就说明了人不可能超越自身思维去想事情,受自身的知识局限性、立场的影响,就能看这么远,所以造成每个人三观不同。所谓相互理解都是思维在同等层面才能发生的。

遇到事情的时候,别简单地用对错来定论。事无对错,只有对谁更有利,谁掌握最终决定权。

才知道涨了。家长们议论纷纷,都说园里做法过分。开始组织起来对抗,有的说不缴费罢课,有的说转幼儿园,有的说开家长会找幼儿园要说法。有的人说觉得涨价可以,但要合理。在幼儿园微信群里吵翻了天,最后园长解散了这个群。我们觉得是园长心虚,园长说因为这些言论会造成更多家长的不满。双方都对,但最终的决定权掌握在园长手中。

xxxx所以父母建立了一个父母小组来分享新的发展和交换新闻。在父母会面后,附近的幼儿园全部被抚养长大。这是幼儿园的集体涨价行为。它是为了改善教育,改善食物招牌,推广一费制度。教育局无法控制它。

片断:免费改善膳食,增加教具和特殊课程。我们不在公园开设家长会,所以我们主动与他们交谈。 “山不在这里,我会通过。我同意我的父母可以找到幼儿园和负责人沟通。这不是吵闹或没有麻烦。这是一个建议。最后,导演同意了这个要求并承诺在改善后有一张照片。他说他不会举行家长会。由于人们混杂和误解,因为周边地区正在崛起,我们必须上升,或成为业内的公敌。 p>回到家后,我问我的丈夫,如果你是花园的负责人,你会提高价格吗?他说:“起来,就像其他人一样。你能成为既得人,为什么要冒犯别人?”

在谈判时,给花园施加压力并要求更多。不要只看一个小型幼儿园,就像一个小社会。

愤怒的父母只会问:“你为什么这么久?教育局没有规定。我们不能接受这么多,而且我们有一堆幼儿园管理漏洞。”负责人回答:“你可以打电话给教育局在附近询问。公园都在崛起,我们不能起床,而且我们每天的钱都不会多。我们会用这笔钱对于孩子们。我们和我们的父母都是为了孩子们。“

价格上涨仍然没有上升,是对还是错?这是幼儿园,而不是父母。我只需要为我的孩子做出有利的选择。妥协不是无原则的妥协。不要通过对错来判断事物。从现实来看,愤怒无法解决任何问题,而理性可以帮助你做出最有利的选择。