受苦比解决问题来的容易,和苦呆在一起与不幸同行,生活该是如此

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“我对她很好。每次她都有我想要的东西,我会尽力满足它。但我总是抱怨我不长大。我经常在休息时玩游戏。我说谁能赚钱和我们在这个年龄。“买房子,我不是一个很好的家庭,但这不能怪我。我觉得我对她很好。我经常在家做饭。我正在做我自己。我真的不喜欢我我什么都没有。可以给她.“青木ch咽道。”

Aoki是我的同学,我经常见面,因为我住在不远处的一个地方。他和他的主题谈了三年,但由于她的对象一直不喜欢她,她最终分手了。

青木在学校时是一个很大的流。有时,老师批评他,他会被他推倒。可能这不是他的理由。我觉得他当时很聪明,会为自己找借口。

现在看来,这是受害者的心态,也是人格障碍。总是呆在弱者中,寻求关注或爱情向上,给他一种更痛苦的感觉,也希望得到一些可以谈判的重量,更多的是表明别人为他感到难过。总有各种借口,拒绝承认你有问题,并将责任归咎于他人。其他人可能是一个社会,他们可能对上司不公平,或者他们可能是一个不了解他的痛苦的女朋友。

在他看来,苦难总是常态,很多人都为他感到难过。有问题永远不是他的问题。

受苦比解决问题更容易

忍受不幸比享受幸福更容易。 Burt。海林格

在许多人的感受中,生活是痛苦的,所以有人说疲惫就是生命,苦涩就是生命,苦涩.这个前提是承认生命是痛苦的。所以大多数人会在那一刻受苦,他们不会累。生活中总会有很多琐碎的事情,这总会让人感到无能为力。

In comparison, solving problems is an initiative, and it is necessary to have a higher level of life and a life of serious life. The problem will be, but it will never stop in front of the problem solver. Not to bother and suffer.

The problems that need to be solved in a person's life are very limited. Self and yourself, yourself and your lover, yourself and others, financial problems.

The problem is never a problem. It doesn't matter if you don't think of him as a problem.

We are pursuing happiness, obviously not unfortunate, God will make fun of us. It is easy to suffer, and it is easier to bear the misfortune than to enjoy happiness. Some people responded with a smile: "pain and happiness."

Solving the problem is simple and complicated. If you are extremely disappointed with your marriage, you are drowning in bad emotions, and what you have to do is to explore your head and calm yourself first, which is the first step in solving the problem. Marriage relationships are complex relationships that require complex emotions and relationships. This undoubtedly requires a lot of wisdom, and there is no such wisdom to get. This has the ability to solve problems.

Having the ability to solve problems does not necessarily solve the problem. If the object is your own, then you can decide the outcome. If it is someone else, there is uncertainty. When you want to deal with a problem seriously, he does not agree. You didn't get a positive response.

Although this is the norm, it is another problem for you. It's easy for you to continue to solve the problem. Pushing two people together to solve the problem requires more energy. And because there are others in it, the result is a variable.

The forerunner is worthy of encouragement and praise, and the world is wonderful for you.

Suffering and suffering unfortunately, it is a matter of who will be, and it is good to persuade oneself to get used to it. Hide your needs and transfer your feelings. This way you don't need to make any changes, no psychological pressure, no brains. It is easy to get pain and misfortune when you don't progress or think.

xx这是上帝的游戏规则,也可以说是自然法则。不是因为你想,不想改变。

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